Well... yes! You see, women are not as
visually stimulated as men. Quite frankly one of the things about men that we absolutely
love to see is... him in a sharp suit, all dressed up and smelling sweet. Of course
showing us a photo of a muscular jock, in or out of his briefs, would probably get us a
little wet also! But what really get's us wet is the voice of Barry White! Ohhhhh
yeeeaahhhh! Now, of course not every man has such a wonderful deep, sexy voice as Barry
White, but if he's saying the right things... it won't matter.
So what are the right things, you ask? Well... put simply, we like to hear about what you
want to do to us :) That's right! We want you to stimulate our imagination where a great
deal of our sexuality lies. You see, unlike our male counterparts, our clits don't become
erect and cause us to exude wetness simply from the site or sound or smell of an
attractive man. For most of us, we require a bit more.... a tease, a preview of things to
come. You can never tell us enough how much you love us, need us, desire us or just have
to have us! The manner in which you tell us the things we want to hear is far more apt to
get you where you want to go than simply "reciting" them verbatim.
Start in the morning, before heading off to work by telling your lady how wonderful it is
waking up beside her, and if time permits..... add a little foreplay to that and promise
more when you get home. Make sure you kiss her tenderly before you leave for work. You
see, it's the build up of anticipation that pays off in the long run. Give her a call
during the day and tell her you miss her and that you were thinking about how good her
body feels against yours. When you come home from work, grab her like she was the hottest
babe on
the face of the earth and give her a long "hungry" kiss. Tell her you've been
thinking about nibbling her breast, licking her clitoris or diving into her wonder-well.
During the early evening, come up to her while she's making dinner or washing dishes and
whisper erotically in her ear telling her, in detail, what you want to do with her. If you
and your lady are alone in the house and unlikely to be interrupted.... when you're done
eating dinner.... shove the dishes to one end of the table and tell her to lie down on the
cleared area so that you can partake of her sweetness for desert. If you're not alone and
have to wait for children to go to bed,
give her a few more whispers before bedtime, by the time you get in the bedroom with
her.... she'll be ready to fulfill those desires.
Ok... so now it's time to get on with the act itself. Don't stop talking! Talk to her like
the "bad" little girl she wants to be for you. You cannot believe how much she
wants that! Sometimes, she may want to hear things that are normally considered
"taboo", that doesn't mean that she wants the action... just the
"fantasy" to excite her more. When she is servicing your orally.... use that
time also to heighten her excitement by telling here exactly how you're gonna use it on
her...... guide her as she gives you head, tell her what you like, how you want her to
lick it, suck it... devour it. Your voice stimulates her, she needs to hear it.
It takes a little practice for some, but I think you will find that the results are most
rewarding..... for both of you! As you become more verbal.... so will she, if she isn't
already. Another thing that is very stimulating to women is written erotica. Why do you
think so many women read those cheesy romance novels? It stimulates that part of their
sexuality that is aching for the voice of her lover. So when you're wondering what to get
her for a gift, think erotica, and don't be shy about asking for adult oriented erotica
for women at your local book store, they'll be happy to make some suggestions.... audio
books of this nature would be "perfect"!
To help you get started, go out and buy a collection of albums that feature male artists
with sexy voices... Barry White, Michael Bolton, Marvin Gaye to name a few. Be sure you
have something in the bedroom to play them on and then make sure to listen to the kind of
things the lyrics of the songs are saying.... mimic it in your own way. She will love you
all the more for your efforts!
